KIT JONES, M.Ed., Licensed Professional Counselor

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Providing Daily Structure for Kids with ADHD



Kids under 10 or 12 years of age need ten hours of sleep and a consistent bedtime.

The routine should begin two weeks prior to start of school.


There needs to be coordination among the various caregivers to maintain consistency of structure.


Parents should coordinate with the Teacher before school starts and ask the Teacher to join with the Parent and other Caregivers and be involved with structuring the Child’s time while in school to give him the best opportunity for success.


Ask to have the Child seated at front of class near the Teacher to minimize distractions.


Ask the Teacher to make daily 1-to-1 time with the Childwhenever she can focus on him for a few minutes—a priority.

     Note: This helps both the Child and the Teacher in the long run.



ROUTINES HELP KIDS KNOW WHAT TO EXPECT




After-school Routine:


            Snack

            Fun Play Time 30 Minutes

            Homework:

                        1-to-1 with Parent/Caregiver to help keep the Child on task

                        Start with subject the Child is least interested in

                        Intersperse with 10- to 15-minute breaks between subjects-tasks, or as needed

                        No screens (tv/games/computer) on while doing homework

            Dinner



Bedtime Routine:


            Lights Lowered, Sound (tv/radio/computer, etc.) Off

            Fun Play Time

            Bath/Brush Teeth/PJs on

            15-30 Minute story 1-to-1 with Parent/Caregiver

            Lights Out, in Bed, by 8:30 p.m.*


             *If (when) the Child gets out of bed, tell him, “It’s bedtime now” and take him back to bed.

            If (when) the Child gets out of bed again, say nothing and take him back to bed without eye contact.

            Repeat till the Child stays in bed. This may (will) take a while; but, eventually, he will stay in bed.

            The Parent must be patient and determined to outlast the Child, no matter how long it takes,   

            to make the point that bedtime is non-negotiable. Once the Child understands this and

            the Parent is consistent in reinforcing the bedtime, he will understand the limit set and comply.